Head Shave Fetish Interview : Andy

Ash - Your head shave video is one of my favourites. Did you make the video for yourself or the headshave community?

Andy - Both, I was trying to make a video of what I would like to see more of. There’s not a lot of boys getting shaved by force from a full head of hair to complete smoothness. Usually I can only find buzzcuts, or the video ends in degrading things that ruin it for me. If it had been my idea entirely, I would’ve tried making it more natural and not too bdsm related. But it was still fun to make.

Ash - Was that a real sub dom relationship you were in?

Andy - It was just a role play. The man in the video is a very close friend of mine and we both have similar interests. I know that’ll probably upset or disappoint some people but I mean, it’s the internet.

Ash - So, when did you first start getting the urge to shave your head?

Andy - As a kid, I liked guys with long hair. I had an irrational fear of being bald! I would watch movies and anytime there was a guy I liked with nice hair, he’d end up with a severe haircut. Movies like Major Payne, Boyhood, boy with the green hair, full metal jacket. It impacted me greatly. I also had to get buzzcuts growing up and I absolutely hated them. Then one night I was about 9 or 10 and I had a dream where I ended up bald, a switch flipped, and I wasn’t terrified. I became fascinated with being bald and what I thought it represented: masculinity.

Ash - I loved long hair as a kid too, but the hairdresser would always give me the same short haircut. It’s almost as if my fetish is trying to deal with the mild trauma of that.

Andy - You described it pretty well, I do feel it was a mild trauma.

Ash - When was the first time you shaved your head completely bald?

Andy - I was 17, and I had just graduated high school. I was too scared of people’s reactions before that. When I graduated, I had a Justin Bieber hairstyle, but I slowly kept cutting it shorter and shorter. I wanted a smooth transition so nobody would be too shocked. I used an old pair of clippers and a disposable razor. It was painful and it didn’t feel completely smooth, but it looked bald.

Ash - Did you love it, or did you have mixed feelings?

Andy - I was excited that I had finally done it. At first, I didn’t think it looked good on me. It took a couple of weeks. Then I started showing it off as much as I could. I would wear a hat only to reveal it in public. It was a rush seeing people’s reactions. It was kind of like being naked in public. I found using rubbing alcohol made my head super tight and shiny. I would get it as shiny as possible to draw attention to it. Burned a ton though!

Ash - What were people's reactions?

Andy - I had more positive reactions than negative ones. In public some people would stare in shock. But I was known for having long hair in my town. Some friend’s parents thought I looked cute. My dad hated the look and said it made me look like a gang member. 

Ash - How did he feel about your long hair? I feel like mine kind of reprimanded me for being feminine.

Andy - He hated that too. I love him but the man has control issues. He just had a negative view of looks that would draw too much attention. He’s quite reserved and shy. I do feel he reprimanded my feminine side when I had one.

Ash – Was it a turn on, transforming from being this long-haired boy to being bald? 

Andy – Yes, going from a “pretty boy” “Justin Bieber” haircut to a smooth shaved head is definitely exciting and empowering. I even had the desire to start dressing differently; plain white t-shirts looked really good on me, and it made me start caring more about working out. I felt like an alter ego version of me had been birthed. It was like the awakening of my masculine side.

Ash - How long did you keep it bald for?

Andy - That first time, I kept it shaved for 2 and a half months. I grew it out because of peer pressure and my Dad mostly. When I started going to college, I was bald and that’s how people knew me. I grew it for a year and a half, but I really missed the look. It took about half a year before I ended up bald again. I did it in stages. For me, if it gets passed a certain length. Shaving it just doesn’t feel right. Same for watching a guy get his head shaved. Ever since I’ve been growing my hair out for a couple of months, bleaching it, and then shaving it off again. 

Ash - How sexual is it for you?

Andy - The act of shaving or getting shaved was never really the turn on. Seeing myself afterwards was or watching the video back. It depends on the situation. If I was shaving in front of someone or shaving for a special occasion where I’ll be showing my shiny head off, then I would probably get hard.

  

Ash - What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?

Andy - Mainly forced head shaves. Anything discipline or penitence related, lost bets, a swim team doing a group shave, a game show. I like seeing guys who have to shave their heads that don’t exactly want to. Not exactly dom and sub scenarios. I like authoritative figures like cops, military men, father figures. 

Ash - How are you with authority figures in real life?

Andy - I really only like authority figures in fetish scenarios! They have to be bald as well, with the intention of making the submissive figure “look more like him” “turning a boy into a man” as opposed to doing it to degrade him. I’m not into slave and master roles or shaved eyebrows as for me that is degrading and emasculating.

Ash –I find it submissive to be made to look really masculine though. I feel like hyper masculinity is against my nature - and being forced to go against my nature is a turn on to me. 

Andy - Hyper masculinity is against my nature as well, or at least it was growing up. Being forced to be masculine to me has undertones of submissiveness. But I’m also sexually attracted to very manly guys.

Ash – How is your hair at the moment?

Andy - I don’t know if I’m going to shave it off again. I started growing it on January first at exactly midnight this year. That was my last shave. So, my hair will be as old as the new decade. I like doing symbolic things like that. 

Ash - Do you think you'll be able to fight the urge to shave it? 

Andy - I do get the urge, especially right now that my hair is at an awkward stage. But only when I can literally live out one of my biggest fantasies, will I say, “fine, you win.” As it stands, I feel this part of me is in the past now.

Ash - Do you think shaving your head helped your personal growth?

Andy - To some degree, but real growth to me was not caring how other people think of me. That’s something I still struggle with. Shaving my head was empowering, but also growing it out long. I don’t like being banal.

(You can watch the video here : https://thisvid.com/videos/potato-man-headshave/)

Unexpected Haircut (part 2)

(To Read Part 1 : Click Here)

I came to his apartment with a black band t-shirt and hair down to my jaw. I'm leaving completely bald, in shorts and a tight white Adidas top. I can’t stop touching my smooth scalp and looking at my reflection in car windows. It doesn’t look like me at all. I take a long route home, worried about what my housemate will say. I hope he won’t be in, then I can hide in my room, and at least change back to my normal clothes.

My house mate is in the kitchen when I get back. His mouth falls open.

“I was at the gym,” I say, trying to think of an excuse for my appearance.

"You shaved your head!" He tells me, brushing his brown curly hair out of his eyes. “I thought you were a burglar!”

I wake up the next morning with the sensation of the pillow against my bald head. I’m still shocked, to see no hair in the bathroom mirror. I feel it with my hand, there’s already very short stubble. Chris, the guy who made me shave it, said he wanted a picture every day, to prove I'm keeping it bald. I feel a knot in my stomach. Am I actually going to do this? I’m already putting warm water on my head, then covering it in shaving foam. It almost like he's hypnotised me with his good looks. I pull the razor across my scalp, leaving a patch of hairless skin. I can’t believe yesterday I was looking in this mirror, waiting for my hair to grow longer, and now I’m shaving my head with a razor.

I take a photo for Chris. I try my usual pout, but it doesn’t quite work with the shaved head, so I flex my arm and try to look masculine

“You look so much better without hair," he messages me. "Keep it up."

It turns me on that he finds it attractive.

I look at the sports clothes he gave me, lying on my bedroom floor. But I put on my usual black vest and check shirt. My normal clothes look kind of out of place with my shaved head though. I search in the cupboard for a black beanie, so my head won't feel as naked when I'm outside. I go to band practice with a lot of apprehension.

“Show us your haircut,” says the lead singer, who has black hair down to his shoulders.

I grit my teeth and take off my beanie.

His eyes widen. “Woah, that is bald, dude!” He reaches out and touches my head. The feel of his hand on my naked scalp makes me kind of horny.

Over the next few days, it becomes my routine: waking up, shaving my head, sending Chris a picture. The white of my scalp is starting to fade a bit.

“Looking good, baldie,” he messages me. “Come over this evening. I’ve got a surprise for you.”

I feel my heart beat faster, partly at the thought of his body against mine, partly out of fear at what the surprise might be. I get my dick out, but my phone pings again

“Bring all your clothes in a bin bag, pants and socks too,” he writes. “All your clothes! Don’t leave anything! And don't wank!”

I'm not ready to go out without my hat yet. I turn up at his apartment in a Nirvana t-shirt with my beanie on. He greets me with a squeeze of the shoulder and a  smile. When I'm inside he pulls the beanie off and puts it in the kitchen bin.

“No more hats,” he says. “You need to show off your bald head. Are these all your clothes?” He gestures to the bin bag in my hand, containing my entire wardrobe.

“I think that’s everything." I hand the bag to him.

“Except what you're wearing.” He opens a kitchen draw and gets some scissors out. He cuts my T-shirt from the bottom to the neck, so it hangs open. “These are the last black indie clothes you’re going to wear.” He slides the scissors into my jeans, cutting down the leg. He cuts my boxers off too, and I’m naked except for my boots. “Put them in the bag,” he says. "I'll take it to the charity shop tomorrow."

He rubs my bald head and tells me to turn around. I turn to face the kitchen cupboard, aware that the only clothes I have left are the sports ones he gave me the other day. He fastens a thin silver chain around my neck.

“This shows that you’re mine.” He loops his finger through it and pulls me by it. “I want to show you your new clothes."

In the lounge, there’s a backpack and a pile of new clothes, mostly in greys and whites. There's trainers, a padded jacket, a couple packs of underwear.

“I only want you to wear white underwear and training socks. There’s a pair for each day of the week.”

"You got a lot!" I say, thinking how much he must've spent.

"You're giving up all your clothes, it's only fair I give you a whole new wardrobe." He rubs my bald head again. "Let's go get something to eat, pick out what you want to wear."

They're all things that I would never ever wear. There’s a shiny Adidas tracksuit, a grey Nike tracksuit, polo shirts, a couple of sports tops with stripes on the sleeves. I choose the grey tracksuit.

“I’m taking you to a restaurant," he says. "Not the kebab place! I got you this white shirt and trousers, so you don't have to look like a Chav when we go somewhere nice.”

The trousers are light grey, quite tight with a criss-cross pattern on them. I put them on with the tight white shirt, I feel hot, really masculine. I don’t think anyone would recognise me now.

In the restaurant I roll up my shirt sleeves. I feel kind of naked being in public with my bald head and no hat. But I’m getting along with Chris really well.

“How do you like your haircut really?” He asks.

“There’s something I like about the touch. But I don’t feel like myself with it.”

“You’ll get used to it. All my subs do. I had this one sub who had black emo hair till I shaved him. Now he can’t even deal with having a bit of stubble. He shaves it every day without me asking.”

“Really?” I say, wondering if I want to get so used to it.

When the food comes, he squashes his foot it into my hard dick, under the table. 

“I can’t wait to tie you up and fuck you, when we get back,” he says.

In his lounge, he takes all my clothes off, except for the silver chain. I kneel on the floor and he unbuttons his shirt. His abs, defined, covered in a thin layer of hair. He rubs his thick cock against my head and face, then pushes it into my mouth. It fills my mouth up, I want to give him a really good blow job. I rub his glans with my lips, then taking it deep into my throat. Its really thick and I choke on it. He lets me keep sucking it for a long time, occasionally using my shaved head to push it deep into my throat.

“This is the only bad thing about a bald head," he says. "Nothing to grab onto.”

While I’m sucking his cock, he takes my hand and puts a leather cuff on it. He cuffs it to my other hand behind my back. Then he lift me up and arranges me, bent forwards over a table. He gets lube and puts a finger in my ass, then two, then three. I let out a whimper as he starts to push his thick cock in and fuck me. He steadies his hand on my back, my bald head rubbing against the table the table as he moves his his cock faster and deeper in and out of my ass. The pain subsides, and he fucks me harder, his cock filling me up, touching all the right places.

When he’s just about to cum, he pulls me onto the floor so I'm kneeling again.

“Lean your head forward,” he says, pumping his cock. Then he cums, I can feel it, warm, dripping down my bald head. He takes the cuffs off me and sits on the sofa. "I want to watch you cum, now."

I kneel there in front of him and wank, feeling his semen on my bald head. I feel really masculine and really submissive at the same time. I look up at him while I wank, his chest muscles, good bone structure, slicked back hair; it's not hard to get close to orgasming. I moan and my eyes roll back. Cum squirts onto my stomach. I try to stop it getting on the carpet, by smearing it across myself.

When I get out his shower, with it's black walls and Yves Saint Laurent aftershaves, he's waiting on the sofa.

"One more thing." He comes over to me, holding something. It's made of metal. He pulls it over my balls, pushes my dick inside, then locks it with a little padlock. "That'll help you concentrate on your training."

"Training?" I repeat, looking down at my dick, locked into this neat metal cage.

"Training," he repeats. "You think I'm going to let you keep your body like that!?"

Head Shave Fetish Interview

This is my interview with the owner of endlessflattery.tumblr.com. He has a full head of hair but regularly shaves it completely bald.

Ash: When did you first start getting the urge to shave your head?

Endlessflattery: High school, like freshman year. I didn’t realize that I might be gay at that time. I just noticed some guys who had done it. I was like, I really like that! I would catch myself staring, or they would catch me, and I’d panic.

Ash: When was the first time you shaved it?

Endlessflattery: It took me until junior year to just do it. It was that long emo style that was popular in the 2000s, down to my chin and a bit shorter on the sides. I remember I couldn’t look in the mirror when I went to shave it. I was hunched over the toilet, trembling. But I forced myself to do it. I walked to Walmart after school to buy the shittiest clippers ever. Anyways, I forced the clippers down the center of my head. The shaving part was easier.

Ash: Were you worried about how your family and friends would react?

Endlessflattery: I was. My mom thought I was in a gang. It took her quite a while to trust me. I was definitely not in a gang. Everyone was shocked, but it was short lived. No one really questioned me after a few days.

Ash: Did you love it straight away or did you want your hair back?

Endlessflattery: I loved it immediately! I just wished I could get my parents on board. But I slowly decided to severe ties with what they wanted for me. I realized they couldn’t understand what made me happy. I’ve tried shaving my brows. I’ve also removed my lashes.

Ash: What do you think the total hair removal is about? Is it a submissive thing?

Endlessflattery: It’s not a sub thing for me. I really like being “sir” in the bedroom. I get off on the idea that my “boy” wants to be like me or be converted. This flirts with skinhead culture or “inclusion.”

Ash: So, what is your ultimate fantasy? 

Endlessflattery: I have a guy over for the night, with the intent to alter his appearance as I see fit. That will involve shaving his head at least, at most I’ll take all the hair off his head. I’ll make silly commands, and tell him it’s part of his initiation. Have him pleasure me as I see fit, return the favor a bit. Then I’ll take him out to a bar to show him off. I’ll choose his outfit. Have a few drinks. Head home. More sexual debauchery. Give him praise at the end of the night. Tell him, "Welcome to the club," and rub his bald head.

Ash: That's amazing! I've thought about the same thing; a guy shaving my head and choosing my clothes, then making me go out to a bar or restaurant with the new look. What is the hottest head-shaving experience you’ve had?

Endlessflattery: I met up with another fetisher from tumblr. He shaved my head and we hooked up. He wasn’t too sure he could get into the fetish. But nowadays he’s shaving his head full time.

Ash: How is it being bald for long periods, what are peoples reactions?

Endlessflattery: People have their comments. But they end after a day or two. Then you’ll get the occasional compliment! Which is just the best feeling really.

Ash: I see in your pics you've grown your hair back a few times? Why?

Endlessflattery: Honestly, I get lazy or depressed. I did want to grow my hair out at an earlier age.  I wanted to be able to do the emo hair flip, which I look back and laugh at now. After I was able to do it, it kinda lost its shimmer. Like, it wasn’t for me. I’m happier bald or at least with a recon.

Ash: I saw you tried waxing your hair off . How was that?

Endlessflattery: Waxing was great, but super painful until you’ve done it a few times. Also it’s super difficult to transition into a hair style because your hair grows back unevenly. I hate shaving though, I wish I could just turn off my hair follicles

Ash: Have you ever thought about where your hair removal fetish comes from?

Endlessflattery: I have, but I can’t really find the root. Just when it started. But not why.

Ash: I feel like you've always been happy about this urge to shave your head , am I right?

Endlessflattery: Yeah! I’m entirely okay with it. I don’t let it run my life either. It’s never a “make or break” situation, if I’m not bald every single day, or even if my lover isn’t bald.

You can find Endlessflattery on Tumblr at endlessflattery.tumblr.com.